We should recognize what is important for our partner so that we may work on those issues. This will create goodwill in our relationship. On the other hand our partner should also revert back by recognizing our wants. We must state our wants clearly so that our partner is able to satisfy us. It has been seen and observed that constantly giving to others at the expense of our own needs becomes the cause of anger.

Don’t assume that the things will always go according to our wish. It is difficult to reach a compromise if we have an attitude like this. This type of attitude is the resultant of gathered anger in the relationship. We will get more respect and affection if we respect what our partner needs and compromise when we can.

Conflicts cannot be avoided in any relationship but in order to have a strong relationship both of you need to feel that you have been heard. Always remember the goal is not to win but to resolve the conflict.

Emotional intelligence is also vital in solving the conflicts. Resocouple has developed an informational website mycoupletype.com that has introduced new concepts that will necessarily improve the emotional intelligence of your relationship and you will be able to enjoy a healthy relationship.