In an argument no one “wins”. No one will be supposed to be successful if the discussion has not been left with a possible solution. A problem can be solved through the way of communication by mutual compromise. Before bringing up a problem make sure you are ready with the solutions. Every communication may be initiated with the positive things and then moving to the discussion on problem areas. Be a good listener and make sure you understand what your partner has said.
If the discussion is turning too intense and irrational, it is good to postpone the discussion to a time and place where effective communication can take place. Try to end a conversation on a positive note if you can’t come up with the best solution. Listen to your partner’s point and if you disagree react with the reasons in a respectful manner. Focus on the problem you have chosen to discuss. For example if you are discussing financial problems then emotional issues should not come up. Before starting a conversation you should choose the time, place and ambiance where stress and distractions are low.
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